Eat Drink Man WomanSunday, 4 December 2005 04:11 am
The little guy should be in charge sometimes
An acceptable specimen of the opposite sex presented herself to me tonight and I turned her down. The body was willing (very very willing) after some dirty dancing and close contact but the mind wasn’t. I didn’t feel anything for her at all.
And though my ego was adequately stroked by her making the moves on me, there wasn’t physical attraction on my part. Thus I didn’t take up the “offer”. Damn it. Sometimes I should really not think so much. Sometimes I should really just let the little guy take charge.
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Hehehe.. Kesian Encik Mooi. ;o)
yup the body was saying, wtf is wrong with u!?
I’ve got a male friend like you. he will only sleep with a girl if she is a serious girlfriend, he doesn’t have flings or casual sex. I’m like what is wrong with you?!?! I respect him though, I’d rather a guy like that, than one who’ll just go around rooting anything.
you must have pretty good self control, mooi!!
Erm yes I have very good willpower. But argh…and I should be happy about it right? Instead I’m just frustrated. Hahaah.
Ahh, at least your self-respect is intact
I thought of this episode of Seinfeld (http://www.seinfeldscripts.com/TheContest.htm – blogger wouldnt let me make a link!) when I read your post – it’s not exactly the same thing, but still.. does it help if you can shout “I’m Master of My Domain!!!”?
U’ve made the decision..so I guess u’ve to stop regretting it… ahhaa
let’s say, u’ve passed the stage where you could just hop to the bed without feelings i.e. u need to feel for her (and that’s ultimate bang!!)
kudos to the rejection.
Wait til one day your little guy decides not to obey you anymore, that’s when you’ll really feel frustrated… hehehehe…
Hey aren’t you the guy who said he’d one day like a girl to do the chasing??? har har har? See, this is what happens!
Oh oh oh and Mooi, i got my first haters on my msn space! Aren’t you proud?
cw: I know the ep that you are talking about but the more appropriate ep is the one where Seinfeld’s brain was having a chess match with this penis.
Erm after all the excitement, I was definitely not the “master of my domain” that night. Hahahha!
spinnee: hehehe…I guess I will have to. If I should feel good about my rejecting her, then why do I feel so unfulfilled? Boohoo. Hahha!
darkharf: shit…you have a point. I’d be a raging maniac.
purpletiara/Miss L: yes I’m all for the girl chasing me, but why can’t I also get one that I happen to like also?
And yes I saw your haters! Woohoo! Welcome to the big league.
you know…
if i knew you in person i’d do the following two things
1) stare at you incredulously for 5 seconds
2) and then go WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!
Dammit! Mooiness!WTF are you thinking! Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh! Am you were saying you cannot tahan those seductive signifier in my blog! (well … guess she didnt “pre-moan” … that’s why)
Next time a girl hit on you, don’t panic…
held up your handphone in the air and flash those lights…
Captain Emiryo will come to the rescue…
I will point my finger and shout in your face,
“WTF you doing soldier?!!
Where’s your sense of duty man?!!
Arm you with a big gun’s for you to charge, not fucking run away you weak piece of shit!!!
No physical attraction? you do it!
She weights 360 pounds? you’ll do it!!
She have a face like my grandfather? you’ll still do it!!!
Stand and fight like a man! You fucking understand?!!”
ally: err yeah. that would be the common reaction of most ppl.
louyau: ahahahha. yes she didn’t “pre-moan”. ok ok I’m already kicking myself about it.
emiryo: YES SIR! RIGHT AWAY SIR! Or as Nike would say, “Just do it”! *smack myself*
aiyo little grasshopper…
what happen laaa?
But good for you.Very respectable reaction from the male species.
*clap*clap*
sourrain: thanks *sob* cold shower or porn? cold shower or porn?
Oh well, u need a girlfriend, mooi. That’s what I gathered. ahahah
spinnee: I need sex is what I need. And yet I am particular about how I get it. Shite. Blame it on my conscience.
Just being selective. Nothing wrong.
that’s a virtue ok 
yes, there is no doubt that you really need to get laid! however, don’t complain about not getting any sex if you are going to turn down a hot girl that practically throws herself at you!! don’t worry, I’m just as sexually frustrated and I am also fussy and won’t just be with any guy. so I know exactly how you feel!
girlstar7: nice to have a kindred spirit.
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