Good looking people get away with a lot. The flash of a smile, the twinkling of the eyes, a fluttering of eyelashes, a breathy or husky tone of voice. All techniques employed so effectively by the pretty and handsome.
But what about ugly people? We know that men can compensate for their lack of good looks with the amount of money that they have. What about women then? How do you forgive mean and spiteful behaviour from a less than ordinary woman, who is even more ugly because she is behaving badly? What qualities must such a woman have to make you overlook the ugliness?
I remember a night out a while back, with some friends and a girlfriend of one of those friends. From the first time I met her before that night, I never had a good impression of her. After tolerating her snide remarks, and her putting down our friend in front of us almost constantly that night, I was about to blow up at her when I was pulled aside by one of the other friends.
Me: Seriously, what the fuck does he see in her?
Him: Dunno man.
Me: I mean look at him, he’s just sitting there eating it all up, not saying anything.
Him: I know right, she’s not even pretty.
Me: Yeah man! I mean if she was pretty, hey you know … we’d cut her some slack and we’d totally understand why he’s just sitting there like he was her bitch.
Him: Heh. Yeah.
Me: Do you think the sex is really good? You know, like really really good? I mean that’s the only reason I can think of.
Him: Yeah yeah. Maybe she has a golden pussy.
Both: Wahahahhaha!

It’s been 4 years. She’s the same and they are still together. That pussy is more than golden. More than Platinum. It’s Visa Infinite.
(inspired by Kimberly’s post about the same)
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sentimentality/emotional attachment… the old books & toys i can’t bear to throw away..it’s the same for relationships..the guy still sees value in those good things & times which they both used to share together..
I couldn’t help myself. I followed the links from one female’s blog to another to another… Can i just say that this is the reason why i don’t have many female friends? Boys just wouldn’t bother with such petty bullshit. (I know we’re talking about ‘young’ females here, but still. Ugh.)
Re the Visa Infinite, it’s just like the Black American Express, no? I wonder when they’re going to send me an invitation to join. The week after never, perhaps.
Ronnie: sentimentality? Shieet. What if those good times are but just memories now? Still holding on to the past is just not smart, especially when the present is so bleak.
JL: heheh. Women are their worst enemies – some truth in that.
Heh, Black AMEX, Visa Infinite … you have to seriously rich to even *get considered* for an invite.
it is true that good looking girls can get away with being bitches in a way that the not-so-pretty can’t. the number of poor pussy-whipped nice guys I have seen with hot but very bitchy women…well, let’s just say, I’ve lost count! there are a lot of manipulative bitches out there.
I agree with Ronnie; people stay in bad relationships because of sentimentality and emotional attachment. they are so USED to being with that person, they forget what it’s like to not be with that person, even if their lives would be a lot less miserable. the number of people I’ve seen stay in a relationship long past it’s expiry date is ridiculous.
but hopefully these people in bad relationships/going out with someone wrong for them eventually move on, learn from their mistake, and find someone better suited to them
phew, its such a multiple linked story, i give up!!!
so that Him is a ‘small white face’?
Sometimes love is blind … and sometimes people just love to inflict self punishment to themselves *shrugs*
girlstar7: masochistic if you ask me.
Leonard: 小白脸 is more like if the guy is being “kept” by the woman right? In this instance, he is more a very hen-pecked person.
marina: yes masochistic as I’ve mentioned. Heh.
His eyes kanan got stamped…
It’s a veri sticky one.
IMHO, this is one of the funniest posts you’ve ever written.
Actually for me, if someone is mean, if the person is goodlooking, they will kenna lagi from me… cos I think you can’t rely on looks. But I have friends who took a long time to break off from some girl (the girl is normal, ie not that bitchy/ugly, they are just not destined to be) because she had big boobs/can give great bj/and him have great mindblowing sex 20 hours a day.
Humans, so complicated. Hahaha
don’t underestimate the power of a (good) blowjob
mmmm???
MagC: sibeh sticky.
rationalneurotic: heh, issit? Thanks! Men’s weakness is sex but I like to think I’m above it.
kimberlycun: wahahahah! yeah baby! *ahem*
Herman: what man? spit it out!
I had mate like that who had an ugly gf that treated him like crap. kept on patronising him and criticising him in front of all his mates. We never really got why he liked her and we couldn’t squeeze it out of him but our theory was that he was looking for a mother figure.
Rob: heh good one.