Comments on: My Most Emotionally Satisfying Relationship http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/ I see, I hear and I feel. And then I blog it. Sun, 20 May 2012 09:39:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Mooiness! » Being the platonic friend is not that bad http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-176764 Mooiness! » Being the platonic friend is not that bad Sun, 04 Oct 2009 02:58:35 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-176764 [...] my relationships with these women, it was very comforting and nice to be around them at the time. Emotionally satisfying, if you [...] [...] my relationships with these women, it was very comforting and nice to be around them at the time. Emotionally satisfying, if you [...]

]]> By: Mooiness! » Bros before Hos http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-55270 Mooiness! » Bros before Hos Mon, 05 Nov 2007 14:41:07 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-55270 [...] happened a while ago, around the time that I had my most emotionally satisfying relationship. In a nutshell, she was only going to be in Perth for 6 weeks and the fact that a guy friend at the [...] [...] happened a while ago, around the time that I had my most emotionally satisfying relationship. In a nutshell, she was only going to be in Perth for 6 weeks and the fact that a guy friend at the [...]

]]> By: Mooiness! » Lonely when not alone http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-24889 Mooiness! » Lonely when not alone Mon, 07 May 2007 01:45:33 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-24889 [...] No relationship came out of it, and the empty feeling did come back after. But at the time, it reinvigorated me and I was smiling for the next few days. However I must say that I feel ambivalent that the best physical relations that I’ve had was not also with someone whom I connected with emotionally. [...] [...] No relationship came out of it, and the empty feeling did come back after. But at the time, it reinvigorated me and I was smiling for the next few days. However I must say that I feel ambivalent that the best physical relations that I’ve had was not also with someone whom I connected with emotionally. [...]

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9947 mooiness Sat, 23 Sep 2006 05:06:04 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9947 rationalneurotic: actually that's not very surprising. Sex does change the whole dynamics between a couple. Here's wishing you the luck in finding good love *and* good sex. ;) rationalneurotic: actually that’s not very surprising. Sex does change the whole dynamics between a couple.

Here’s wishing you the luck in finding good love *and* good sex. ;)

]]> By: rationalneurotic http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9939 rationalneurotic Sat, 23 Sep 2006 01:24:38 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9939 ironically, sex has destroyed all my relationships. it was always beautiful before then. perhaps it was due to the timing, or really because of sex, or I don't know what. ironically, sex has destroyed all my relationships. it was always beautiful before then. perhaps it was due to the timing, or really because of sex, or I don’t know what.

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9923 mooiness Fri, 22 Sep 2006 11:35:00 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9923 Rob: we kept in touch for a while but gradually drifted apart due to work and distance. girlstar7: yes, everything you said! As I've said, the reason that we remember it so fondly is because we didn't overthink it and just went with the flow. Otto: in another words, ignorance is bliss. :) Rob: we kept in touch for a while but gradually drifted apart due to work and distance.

girlstar7: yes, everything you said! As I’ve said, the reason that we remember it so fondly is because we didn’t overthink it and just went with the flow.

Otto: in another words, ignorance is bliss. :)

]]> By: Otto http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9920 Otto Fri, 22 Sep 2006 08:32:50 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9920 That's why there is the cliche, "Live each day like it's your last"... The philosophy makes you appreciate the best and overlook the worst, thus having a great time and the illusion of "satisfaction". That’s why there is the cliche, “Live each day like it’s your last”… The philosophy makes you appreciate the best and overlook the worst, thus having a great time and the illusion of “satisfaction”.

]]> By: girlstar7 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9919 girlstar7 Fri, 22 Sep 2006 08:02:40 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9919 I had something similar with a guy. I met him out at a club one night, and I gave him my number. a few days later he called and we arranged to go on a date. at the start of the date he told me he lived in Alice Springs (I live in Melbourne) and that he was only down for a couple of weeks visitng friends. instantly I thought 'okay this cant' go anywhere, I can't get attached'. but those few hours we spent together on that date, we just really connected. we had SO much in common plus a strong physical attraction. despite knowing it couldn't really go anywhere, I still got involved, thinking 'may as well give it a go and have no regrets'. what started was two weeks of great fun. we saw each other pretty much every day (it was in the summer, and I was on uni break and a break from work). we did fun things like going to the aquarium, going to the beach, playing tennis and going bowling. we had the best time together, I can honestly say they were two of the best weeks of my life! when he left, I found myself devastated. we kept in contact for a while, and hooked up once again when he came back to Melbourne, but eventually lost contact. who knows if it would've worked out as a 'real' relationship, but it sure felt good while it lasted. sometimes I STILL think about him even though I've had two long term bfs since him (including the one I've got now). sometimes I wonder where he is and if it wouldve worked out, but maybe it's best being the romantic idea in my head of being so perfect without reality or the real world spoiling anything :) I had something similar with a guy. I met him out at a club one night, and I gave him my number. a few days later he called and we arranged to go on a date. at the start of the date he told me he lived in Alice Springs (I live in Melbourne) and that he was only down for a couple of weeks visitng friends. instantly I thought ‘okay this cant’ go anywhere, I can’t get attached’.
but those few hours we spent together on that date, we just really connected. we had SO much in common plus a strong physical attraction. despite knowing it couldn’t really go anywhere, I still got involved, thinking ‘may as well give it a go and have no regrets’.
what started was two weeks of great fun. we saw each other pretty much every day (it was in the summer, and I was on uni break and a break from work). we did fun things like going to the aquarium, going to the beach, playing tennis and going bowling. we had the best time together, I can honestly say they were two of the best weeks of my life!
when he left, I found myself devastated. we kept in contact for a while, and hooked up once again when he came back to Melbourne, but eventually lost contact. who knows if it would’ve worked out as a ‘real’ relationship, but it sure felt good while it lasted. sometimes I STILL think about him even though I’ve had two long term bfs since him (including the one I’ve got now). sometimes I wonder where he is and if it wouldve worked out, but maybe it’s best being the romantic idea in my head of being so perfect without reality or the real world spoiling anything :)

]]> By: Rob http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9918 Rob Fri, 22 Sep 2006 06:11:20 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9918 do you still keep in touch with her? its rare to find a connection like that. you gotta pursue it. remember what buddha says. if you don't try, then you've already failed. do you still keep in touch with her? its rare to find a connection like that. you gotta pursue it.
remember what buddha says.
if you don’t try, then you’ve already failed.

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-9917 mooiness Fri, 22 Sep 2006 05:25:55 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2006/09/21/my-most-emotionally-satisfying-relationship/#comment-9917 ian: precisely - no expectations, no time to really see the "other" side of the person, and also the willingness to just enjoy the time we've got without thinking too much. Yeah, all that. :) ian: precisely – no expectations, no time to really see the “other” side of the person, and also the willingness to just enjoy the time we’ve got without thinking too much.

Yeah, all that. :)

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