Comments on: Why don’t Aussie girls date Asian men?

By: Morgan

Morgan — Sun, 20 May 2012 09:39:41 +0000

As a young Aussie girl, I personally prefer Asian men. It is not a racist thing, I just find myself dating Asian men and truly caring more about them than I usually would with a white/Caucasian man. Asian men seem to be much more family orientated and are much more aware of their physical appearance than white men, which are things that I look for in a guy. But that is just a generalisation and (of course) does not apply to all Asian men. And to all the Asian guys who are asking how to approach us, it really is quite simple. Make eye contact and smile. If we smile back we think you’re cute and you can come talk to us. It works the other way too, so smile back if you think we’re cute! Haha! One other thing – i am openly curious as to what makes asian guys think we’re cute – any suggestions? Thanks!!! Good luck to everyone!

By: Lee

Lee — Mon, 07 May 2012 15:27:57 +0000

Another observation I’ve made with Caucasian girls that are decendants of British or German immigrants in Australia. The one’s who are more economically well off from affluent families with the higher education (ie studied commerce working in the large corporates) tend to prefer asian guys only as a friend and would rather consider dating caucasian men who had higher educated and who works in the corporates and on average has higher salary and position than asian men. Since White men are the top of the game in the corporate world. Whereas for caucasian women working in education, trades, small family businesses and other non flashy careers, or without a job, dating an asian men with a better career and higher education would be a more accepting idea maybe? I think my conclusion is that caucasian women are mostly just like asian women in the sense that they would prefer their men to be in a better financial position and social station than they are on average. While some asian men have flashy careers, but in Australia, the people who top those flashy careers are mostly white men. So if a white woman is also in that flashy career, asian men would be a less attractive date.

By: David

David — Sat, 05 May 2012 03:43:57 +0000

I am asian young man and I like Aussie girls very much but sometimes I feel Aussie girls won’t like me because I am asian man. Can Aussie girls advices me please?

By: C.Y.Leow

C.Y.Leow — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 12:02:58 +0000

When I was leaving Penang to Melbourne for my study in 1965 my parents remind me again NOT to come home with a Aussie wife Hee hee…

By: rianna

rianna — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:50:36 +0000

hi i am an aussie chick and i kinda have a thing for asian guys but most of my friends find it weird but i dont care. i was wondering what an asian guy looks for in a chick i hear they like long hair but i have very short dyed red hair

By: Lee

Lee — Sat, 25 Feb 2012 14:31:18 +0000

It is easy to tell if someone find you attractive enough to like you or not. Just look at them in the eye and smile when you see them on the street or in the city. If they like you, they will smile back and hold the eye contact. If they don’t like you or find you repulsive, they would look away or make a face that looks like they are out of breath. Easy. From my experience, some Anglo white girls in Melbourne do smile back in a shy way, but the golden rule is they have be shorter than you or at least your height. While others are simply not interested and never bother to look your way (your presence is not felt, dating asian never quite crossed their mind). But if you say hi, they are polite enough to say hi back to be nice. As for the Mediterranean white girls, I feel there’s a racist vibe from them towards ethnic non white men. I was at the Greek festival today, and I must say that most Greek women would not date asian man what so ever. If you try to even look at them, they will act like they are too good for you and just tell you to piss off in their eyes. Some even make the look that they find you repulsive for no explanable reason other than your ethnic non white race. Italians are generally more polite. To make matters worse, one day I went running in my neighbourhood, I said ‘good afternoon’ to a Greek looking white old woman, not only did she ignored me, but she made a face that told me she despised me. The same face that I would get from some young white Greek girl.

By: Tom

Tom — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 04:55:51 +0000

Most Asian males are NOT interested in white females, but white males are attracted by Asian females, now you see why WM/AF is much more than AM/WF, everywhere!

However, white males used to think both white & Asian women like them because they’re more attractive. Western movie and media, always portrait Asian men are rats, white men are hero by Caucasian male directors, reflecting their lack of confidence, jealous and insecurity of losing women’s love. Simple!

By: Deni

Deni — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 15:02:33 +0000

I am glad to see some Asian men dating and married to Australian white causasian girls. I feel Asian men would be nice husbands because they dont put all their household money at the TAB, have beer guts,more family orientated,swear,respect their children etc more than a number of Australian men.
So those Aussie girls married to them look after them with loyality.

By: Lawrence

Lawrence — Sat, 05 Nov 2011 22:46:31 +0000

Rachel, you are one of the fantasies many asian dudes fantasize about, but they’re not real, because just about all women go for their race first and unfortunately asian men last even by asian women in english speaking countries. Just remember, females are the ones that choose the mates, and the males will try to mate with any females.

And you’re absolutely right that not all females go for loud, muscular douche-baggy men. Physical strength is no substitute for perception…for perception is the key which unlocks the intangible power of the spirit, these men perceive nothing. Power without perception is spiritually useless and therefore has no true value.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 03:43:21 +0000

Seriously. I can understand where Asian guys are coming from. When you are absent of media around you (in a Western country) validating that you are sexually attractive, plus you receive implicit messages from the media that being an Asian male is less desirable, then you aren’t going to be as confident, so then you aren’t going to get women, so then you aren’t going to be confident, so then it’s a vicious cycle.

This isn’t just limited towards Asian males, though. Just watch Beauty and the Geek. MANY males and some females are socially and romantically awkward, though I admit that men are put in a tougher spot since they are the ones that are expected to do the pursuing.

However, you need to tell yourself every day that you are worthy, celebrate the things that you love about yourself, and be quietly confident. Not all women like buff, loud douche-baggy guys. Some of us LIKE geeks. Be a geek, but be proud of it. If a girl isn’t into that, or into you, that’s cool, because she’s done you a favour by letting you know ASAP so that you can move onto someone that does appreciate you. Don’t have a pity party about it. Ironically, that very same attitude is what will attract women. When you don’t desperately NEED something, that is when you become atractive.

I have fallen for an Asian guy, and I probably would again. It’s your job to show women that skin colour isn’t an issue. Yes, white guys to have an advantage over you because of their physical nature, however, don’t use that as an excuse. It’s how you make a girl/woman FEEL that matters. If you are confident, no matter what you look like, then you will make her feel safe and that is attractive and it has NOTHING to do with race.

Take a read at this blog for more tips (he is brilliant): http://jsbachery.blogspot.com/

And that small penis thing. Any woman that buys into that is not worth your time anyway!