Comments on: Not quite a father, yet

By: mooiness

mooiness — Thu, 26 Oct 2006 11:15:14 +0000

Lupin: heh. we are in the same boat then except you said that you were younger. So you are getting it worse.

By: LupinTan

LupinTan — Thu, 26 Oct 2006 01:52:10 +0000

I just came back from malaysia (momsie’s homie), gena asked about a ki-zillion time whether I got GF or not.

yes, the pressure of the first born. (of my freaking generation).

By: ally

ally — Wed, 25 Oct 2006 10:44:42 +0000

oops. paiseh. *blush*

By: mooiness

mooiness — Tue, 24 Oct 2006 12:11:59 +0000

ian: ah the pressure of the first born.

yanzzz: erm no it’s not times up until I say it’s time’s up.

By: yanZzz

yanZzz — Tue, 24 Oct 2006 07:07:08 +0000

aiya..
its times up already.
u better change ur concept of thinking of owning ur bed all by urself ….
go look for ur tea pot..
so tat ur folks can get to drink the tea she pour to them..

By: ian

ian — Tue, 24 Oct 2006 03:38:12 +0000

Oh coincidence… My granddad, my dad and I are first sons in the family too.

I have a knack with kids and I used to play with them during family gatherings. But for some unknown reason I began to tone down a lot. And I think my stubble kinda scared them away too…

By: mooiness

mooiness — Tue, 24 Oct 2006 00:47:29 +0000

sourrain: you look at them and then they cry? Heheh. You must show me your evil eye sometime.

haha: you see, I’m even lazy in pimping myself out. Hah. But thanks for the advice!

ally: har? you only read the first paragraph issit? I said I’m not lah and I don’t know if I’ll ever be.

herman: no urge there either – to hook up for long term that is.

JJJ: when the time comes, whenever *that* is.

girlstar7: yeah I have the same fear of losing all the stuff that I’m enjoying now, but women definitely get it worse as you’ve said. And there’s the safe upper limit that you must have your baby before you turn 40.

By: girlstar7

girlstar7 — Tue, 24 Oct 2006 00:33:50 +0000

I know exactly how you feel! I’m only 22 but regardless have no maternal instinct whatsoever and am worried that I never will have one! I too am really good with kids but I am better with older children in primary school, and not so good with young babies. All my friends talk about how they want kids and can’t wait to have kids one day but for me that urge is just not there.
Whenever I think of having kids I think of lack of sleep, lack of sex, screaming babies, pooey nappies, mess everywhere, and no longer having a social life! Not to mention the fact that the idea of being pregnant and as big as a house scares the hell out of me not to mention the pain of labour (at least as a guy you just do the fun bit ). I mean, if a blood test freaks me out, don’t know how i would handle a 12 hour labour, ouch!
So yeah, maybe one day I will change my mind, and that maternal instinct will be triggered. but for the mean time, like you, I’m happy living the party life and not having to worry about anyone else!

By: JJJ

JJJ — Mon, 23 Oct 2006 15:29:59 +0000

Aiyor..and I thought you said “women think too much” ….hehe….I am sure you will be ready when the time comes…

By: herman

herman — Mon, 23 Oct 2006 15:29:43 +0000

Dude! just make the effort to hook up !