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		<title>By: shallow</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-36196</link>
		<dc:creator>shallow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jul 2007 03:46:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my boyfriend has never had a gf before and hes not that cute but hes really sweet we just started going out and im getting alot of crap from my friends because he isnt that &quot;hot&quot; i really dont care but its hard REAL HARD. im confused. i dont want to break his heart cause hes liked me for 2 whole years. this stupid story doesnt HELP!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my boyfriend has never had a gf before and hes not that cute but hes really sweet we just started going out and im getting alot of crap from my friends because he isnt that &#8220;hot&#8221; i really dont care but its hard REAL HARD. im confused. i dont want to break his heart cause hes liked me for 2 whole years. this stupid story doesnt HELP!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: mooiness</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-20867</link>
		<dc:creator>mooiness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2007 04:37:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>andi: that is very shallow indeed. :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>andi: that is very shallow indeed. <img src='http://mooiness.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: andi</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-20863</link>
		<dc:creator>andi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2007 01:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha wow idk what i&#039;d do, because my boyfriend just got a really crappy haircut..and i&#039;m thinking about dumping him! ha wtf would happen if he had gotten a skin rash? wow i&#039;m really shallow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha wow idk what i&#8217;d do, because my boyfriend just got a really crappy haircut..and i&#8217;m thinking about dumping him! ha wtf would happen if he had gotten a skin rash? wow i&#8217;m really shallow.</p>
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		<title>By: Mooiness! &#187; The year that was - my 2006, part 2</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-13717</link>
		<dc:creator>Mooiness! &#187; The year that was - my 2006, part 2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2006 11:29:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I asked, &#8220;What if your boyfriend became ugly?&#8221; and said that all of us should be thankful for the simple things in life. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I asked, &#8220;What if your boyfriend became ugly?&#8221; and said that all of us should be thankful for the simple things in life. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: ian</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-13290</link>
		<dc:creator>ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 22:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: mooiness</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-13277</link>
		<dc:creator>mooiness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 12:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>passerby: you lost me there. Being grateful does not necessarily mean being complacent. It just means knowing that you are luckier than a lot of ppl.

girlstar7: it&#039;s all about perspective. And I think once you have that, anyone can be a much happier person. 

sourrain: ok you are also talking about perspective, I think. Hahah. You really lost the plot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>passerby: you lost me there. Being grateful does not necessarily mean being complacent. It just means knowing that you are luckier than a lot of ppl.</p>
<p>girlstar7: it&#8217;s all about perspective. And I think once you have that, anyone can be a much happier person. </p>
<p>sourrain: ok you are also talking about perspective, I think. Hahah. You really lost the plot.</p>
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		<title>By: sourrain</title>
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		<dc:creator>sourrain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 08:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>actually...it was at the point when i lost the plot completely...so in reality, i lost the plot lor.

girlstar is right. I was having a conversation with Bacon yesterday, regarding that now I had seen how his father treat him, I appreciate my parents so so much more. Things that you take for granted all seem so significant when you see what other people go through.In reality..

(just kidding:))</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>actually&#8230;it was at the point when i lost the plot completely&#8230;so in reality, i lost the plot lor.</p>
<p>girlstar is right. I was having a conversation with Bacon yesterday, regarding that now I had seen how his father treat him, I appreciate my parents so so much more. Things that you take for granted all seem so significant when you see what other people go through.In reality..</p>
<p>(just kidding:))</p>
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		<title>By: girlstar7</title>
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		<dc:creator>girlstar7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 03:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Because you don’t know how lucky you are&quot;
SO true
I have been through some tough times this year as I&#039;ve mentioned to you before.  It&#039;s just been one of those years where a lot of things have gone wrong for me.  I&#039;ve lost a job, suffered from the the death of a very close family member, and dealt with a major relationship break-up.  There have certainly been days where I think, &#039;god how can I get through another day.&#039;  I have felt pretty crap, I must admit.
  But I have developed a technique to look on the bright side.  I could be living in a worn-torn country watching people die in front of my face.  I could be living somewhere where I don&#039;t even know where my next meal comes from.  I could be seriously disabled, or terminally ill.  There are so many people so much worse off than me out there and in the end, I&#039;m pretty lucky.  
  Sometimes that&#039;s how you gotta look at things in life.  Put things in perspective.  I feel sorry for the guy in your story.  But in the end, you can&#039;t spend too long feeling sorry for yourself.  You gotta get out there and live life, because in the end, there&#039;s a hell of a lot to live for :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Because you don’t know how lucky you are&#8221;<br />
SO true<br />
I have been through some tough times this year as I&#8217;ve mentioned to you before.  It&#8217;s just been one of those years where a lot of things have gone wrong for me.  I&#8217;ve lost a job, suffered from the the death of a very close family member, and dealt with a major relationship break-up.  There have certainly been days where I think, &#8216;god how can I get through another day.&#8217;  I have felt pretty crap, I must admit.<br />
  But I have developed a technique to look on the bright side.  I could be living in a worn-torn country watching people die in front of my face.  I could be living somewhere where I don&#8217;t even know where my next meal comes from.  I could be seriously disabled, or terminally ill.  There are so many people so much worse off than me out there and in the end, I&#8217;m pretty lucky.<br />
  Sometimes that&#8217;s how you gotta look at things in life.  Put things in perspective.  I feel sorry for the guy in your story.  But in the end, you can&#8217;t spend too long feeling sorry for yourself.  You gotta get out there and live life, because in the end, there&#8217;s a hell of a lot to live for <img src='http://mooiness.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: passerby</title>
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		<dc:creator>passerby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 03:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it&#039;s hard telling the difference between being grateful and being complacent sometimes. if we don&#039;t get what we want, we will become unhappy. and being unhappy couldn&#039;t be right, because we should be grateful for the little things in life. but by using this as a way to lighten up the situation, are we letting ourselves getting away with being complacent? i guess it&#039;s a very simplistic way of looking at things, but sometimes trying to hard to be grateful could make a person who doesn&#039;t want to be grateful in the first place end up being very bitter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it&#8217;s hard telling the difference between being grateful and being complacent sometimes. if we don&#8217;t get what we want, we will become unhappy. and being unhappy couldn&#8217;t be right, because we should be grateful for the little things in life. but by using this as a way to lighten up the situation, are we letting ourselves getting away with being complacent? i guess it&#8217;s a very simplistic way of looking at things, but sometimes trying to hard to be grateful could make a person who doesn&#8217;t want to be grateful in the first place end up being very bitter.</p>
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		<title>By: mooiness</title>
		<link>http://mooiness.com/2006/12/05/what-if-your-boyfriend-became-ugly/comment-page-1/#comment-13253</link>
		<dc:creator>mooiness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2006 23:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BM: we never want to contemplate it until it really happens to us.

mf: oh yeah it does.

frog: so in the end, parents/family over lover.  Hopefully he is consoled that way.

explicist: we won&#039;t know it until push becomes shove.

sourrain: hmm good point. does your comment go on, or did you just use the wrong punctuation? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BM: we never want to contemplate it until it really happens to us.</p>
<p>mf: oh yeah it does.</p>
<p>frog: so in the end, parents/family over lover.  Hopefully he is consoled that way.</p>
<p>explicist: we won&#8217;t know it until push becomes shove.</p>
<p>sourrain: hmm good point. does your comment go on, or did you just use the wrong punctuation? <img src='http://mooiness.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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