Swee and I had a heated argument tonight during dinner. Halfway through I had a random thought in my head: “Why am I putting up with this? I am not even getting sex for it!”
On the drive home, it got me thinking. Is sex the great equaliser? Do you put up with bad behaviour in a relationship because the sex is good? How many of you out there had stayed in a doomed relationship just a bit longer than necessary because the sex was good? Did you throw away logic because she was hot or because he rocked your world? 😉
Personally, I don’t put up with bad behaviour in exchange for sex. I know that no matter how much I may want it, meaningless sex is just dull. And in the end, the bad behaviour is still there.
While we are on the topic, did you hear about the married woman astronaut who attempted to kidnap and hurt a woman she thought was her rival for the affections of a male astronaut she worked with?
An astronaut drove 900 miles and donned a disguise to confront a woman she believed was her rival for the affections of a space shuttle pilot, police said. She was arrested Monday and charged with attempted kidnapping and other counts.
U.S. Navy Capt. Lisa Nowak, 43, who flew last July on a shuttle mission to the international space station, was also charged with attempted vehicle burglary with battery, destruction of evidence and battery. She was denied bail.
Police said Nowak drove from her home in Houston to the Orlando International Airport to confront Colleen Shipman.
It just goes to show that you can be the most intelligent person in the world – seriously, read her bio! – but love (or is it lust?) can still make you go nuts.
[tags]sex, love, relationships[/tags]