Comments on: What, no “me time”? http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/ I see, I hear and I feel. And then I blog it. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 13:05:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-286756 mooiness Thu, 10 Nov 2011 14:19:31 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-286756 I think setting aside some time apart is a good thing. I don't think we should lose our individuality just because we are in a relationship. I think setting aside some time apart is a good thing. I don’t think we should lose our individuality just because we are in a relationship.

]]> By: Adam http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-286755 Adam Thu, 10 Nov 2011 13:44:09 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-286755 When I need me time, I leave the house because I damn sure won't get any free time here with the girlfriend. Maybe I'm better off alone, but I've been like this with all women. I believe man and woman are not meant to see each other every day. Once or twice a week would suffice for me. When I need me time, I leave the house because I damn sure won’t get any free time here with the girlfriend. Maybe I’m better off alone, but I’ve been like this with all women. I believe man and woman are not meant to see each other every day. Once or twice a week would suffice for me.

]]> By: Mooiness! » Annoying girlfriend behaviour http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-281517 Mooiness! » Annoying girlfriend behaviour Wed, 20 Jul 2011 13:31:41 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-281517 [...] when your free time is yours, and so is mine, it builds up resentment and frustration. “If you care about me, you shouldn’t care about anything else” will never happen because I had a life before we met and things don’t just fall off [...] [...] when your free time is yours, and so is mine, it builds up resentment and frustration. “If you care about me, you shouldn’t care about anything else” will never happen because I had a life before we met and things don’t just fall off [...]

]]> By: Mooiness! » When they are more into you than you are into them http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-189432 Mooiness! » When they are more into you than you are into them Sat, 03 Jul 2010 09:16:31 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-189432 [...] indication would be when one partner places the relationship above everything else, while the other treats it with the same importance as other things such as friends and [...] [...] indication would be when one partner places the relationship above everything else, while the other treats it with the same importance as other things such as friends and [...]

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-22610 mooiness Tue, 13 Mar 2007 11:36:56 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-22610 John: sheesh dude. You can't even celebrate your friend's wedding without checking the clock all night? Hmm. I am beginning to feel very frustrated and this isn't even my relationship! :P John: sheesh dude. You can’t even celebrate your friend’s wedding without checking the clock all night? Hmm. I am beginning to feel very frustrated and this isn’t even my relationship! :P

]]> By: John http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-22609 John Tue, 13 Mar 2007 11:34:17 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-22609 last Saturday night i tried a different tact. I informed Lisa i would be out very late at a good friends wedding celebration and probably wouldnt get home until at least 2am. Maybe this was the right way to go?? WRONG!! Lisa told me i would be tired the next day and any important things that needed to be done would be put off until another time. She "suggested" 11pm to be a better time. I did not feel like watching the clock all night to meet my deadline at an occassion that was important to me. To make peace (concede to avoid another 3 hours of arguing after i was already now running late because an hour before a wedding is a great time to "talk") i said i'd make it by 1am. All night i clock watched to ensure i made it home by the time she made me obligate too. It sucked bigtime and i resented her for it. last Saturday night i tried a different tact. I informed Lisa i would be out very late at a good friends wedding celebration and probably wouldnt get home until at least 2am. Maybe this was the right way to go??

WRONG!! Lisa told me i would be tired the next day and any important things that needed to be done would be put off until another time. She “suggested” 11pm to be a better time. I did not feel like watching the clock all night to meet my deadline at an occassion that was important to me. To make peace (concede to avoid another 3 hours of arguing after i was already now running late because an hour before a wedding is a great time to “talk”) i said i’d make it by 1am.

All night i clock watched to ensure i made it home by the time she made me obligate too. It sucked bigtime and i resented her for it.

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-21053 mooiness Mon, 12 Feb 2007 10:31:59 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-21053 sourrain: that we agree on - he shouldn't have promised. There's a lesson there I think. That even if she whines and complains about it at the beginning of the night, it's better to just say, "I'll probably be late. Don't wait up." :D sourrain: that we agree on – he shouldn’t have promised. There’s a lesson there I think. That even if she whines and complains about it at the beginning of the night, it’s better to just say, “I’ll probably be late. Don’t wait up.” :D

]]> By: sourrain http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-21047 sourrain Mon, 12 Feb 2007 08:41:30 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-21047 hmm.. I still think john shouldnt promise her in the first place. If he deserves/want some me time, then fine, but dont go making promises to cut short the me time. Don't get me wrong, I don't think a couple should be together 24/7.Bt John made the choice to cut short his me time by promising Lisa he will pop over, which means he cari pasal sendiri..lor. hmm..

I still think john shouldnt promise her in the first place. If he deserves/want some me time, then fine, but dont go making promises to cut short the me time.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think a couple should be together 24/7.Bt John made the choice to cut short his me time by promising Lisa he will pop over, which means he cari pasal sendiri..lor.

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-21019 mooiness Sun, 11 Feb 2007 13:35:50 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-21019 Devilish: "Mooey" is ok. Props to you for creating a new nick name for me. :) Devilish: “Mooey” is ok. Props to you for creating a new nick name for me. :)

]]> By: DeV|LisH http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/comment-page-1/#comment-21013 DeV|LisH Sun, 11 Feb 2007 09:12:58 +0000 http://mooiness.com/2007/02/10/what-no-me-time/#comment-21013 Mooey: thanks for agreeing with me cos basically any r/ship have to have the trust. U give them ur trust if they betray u then just take it u judge wrongly and he's not meant to be lor. Eh pai seh i type Mooey aje la ha ha anyway Happy Chinese new year to all! Mooey: thanks for agreeing with me cos basically any r/ship have to have the trust. U give them ur trust if they betray u then just take it u judge wrongly and he’s not meant to be lor. Eh pai seh i type Mooey aje la ha ha anyway Happy Chinese new year to all!

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