It seems like the subject of Asian men dating Caucasian women is a perennial one. I wrote “Why don’t Aussie girls date Asian men?” last October, and I’m still getting search-engine traffic to it now – almost 6 months later.

Judging by the way the search terms were phrased, I’m betting that a lot of these queries are from Asian men (maybe even bitter ones). Here’s some of them:

• asian guy on white girl
• asian man aussie girl
• caucasian women who want to date asian males
• women who like asian men
• white girls for asians
• white chicks like asian men

There are exceptions of course but the cold hard truth is most women prefer their men to be bigger than them; a lot of Asian men are smaller. That’s it. That also answers the inevitable question about why it’s easier for white men to get with Asian women, but not vice-versa.

Even if size does not matter, there’s still other physical preferences. Add to that, cultural preferences. People of all races still tend to pair up with those who share their cultural background – most times, it’s much easier and more comfortable that way.

I have a thing for blondes so I understand the exotic factor. If you really must have a white woman, I’d suggest that you start out by being friends with a few of them first, instead of looking at them purely as a mystical sexual frontier for you to cross. You’d understand better what makes them tick and that might help you reach the next level.

Even then, there’s no guarantee that you will succeed in your little quest because your personalities might not mesh.

All that effort that goes into you trying to bed a white woman can be better spent making yourself attractive to all kinds of women, don’t you think? The world is a smörgåsbord of colours so why be obsessed with just one of them? Be obsessed with them all! Woohoo!

Chow Yun-Fat is one cool Chinese dude
but even he didn’t get to kiss Mira Sorvino!