Asian men with white fever - Get over it!
It seems like the subject of Asian men dating Caucasian women is a perennial one. I wrote “Why don’t Aussie girls date Asian men?” last October, and I’m still getting search-engine traffic to it now - almost 6 months later.
Judging by the way the search terms were phrased, I’m betting that a lot of these queries are from Asian men (maybe even bitter ones). Here’s some of them:
- asian guy on white girl
- asian man aussie girl
- caucasian women who want to date asian males
- women who like asian men
- white girls for asians
- white chicks like asian men
There are exceptions of course but the cold hard truth is most women prefer their men to be bigger than them; a lot of Asian men are smaller. That’s it. That also answers the inevitable question about why it’s easier for white men to get with Asian women, but not vice-versa.
Even if size does not matter, there’s still other physical preferences. Add to that, cultural preferences. People of all races still tend to pair up with those who share their cultural background - most times, it’s much easier and more comfortable that way.
I have a thing for blondes so I understand the exotic factor. If you really must have a white woman, I’d suggest that you start out by being friends with a few of them first, instead of looking at them purely as a mystical sexual frontier for you to cross. You’d understand better what makes them tick and that might help you reach the next level.
Even then, there’s no guarantee that you will succeed in your little quest because your personalities might not mesh.
All that effort that goes into you trying to bed a white woman can be better spent making yourself attractive to all kinds of women, don’t you think? The world is a smörgåsbord of colours so why be obsessed with just one of them? Be obsessed with them all! Woohoo!

Chow Yun-Fat is one cool Chinese dude
but even he didn’t get to kiss Mira Sorvino!
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28 Responses to “Asian men with white fever - Get over it!”
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Mar 21 2007 / 10:16 pm
y’know like those old fat man they said have yellow fever? They will not bed another hot blonde in their life by choice
same thing - but this is white fever
whatever fever you have,be it yellow green or blue, i think its quite sick.
no wonder they are frustrated - stuck at home trawling on the internet.
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Mar 21 2007 / 10:20 pm
sourrain : LOL !
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Mar 22 2007 / 8:33 am
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Mar 22 2007 / 8:53 am
In the past couple of months I have met two asian guys who WON’T date asian girls. both of them want to date white girls and say all their main girlfriends have been white.
one of these asian guys parents’ divorced when he was really young and his dad re-married a white woman and he was raised by his dad and step-mum who was white. so he’s used to seeing the asian guy/white girl situation and wants it for himself.
but both these guys claim the MAIn reasons for prefering white girls: that they tend to be more outgoing and less inhibited. both these guys are quite outgoing themselves and prefer a girl who is chatty and loud. they say that asian girls are often too shy and less approachable…
anyways, that’s what they say, dont’ shoot hte messenger! -
Mar 22 2007 / 12:25 pm
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Mar 22 2007 / 2:05 pm
HAHA…funny you say that…I have an asian female friend who has never been with an asian guy. And one day me, her and an asian male friend of ours were out to lunch. The asian guy only dates white girls and has a particular preference for blondes.
Anyway, the two of them (both asian) were joking that of course, they will always remain just friends, because neither of them date other asians! It was pretty funny. I told them they will both have beautiful eurasian children… -
Mar 22 2007 / 2:40 pm
There aren’t many asian girls in australia, so there only choice are white girls and that’s all they have ever dated.
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Mar 22 2007 / 5:24 pm
well don’t know why Aussie gals don’t want to date asian guys. But i myself also don’t want to date white guys. Cos have encounter few experience it’s just damn weird ler. I mean speak english all the time???? maybe i’m too conservative or i prefer my mother tongue. Cos i really cannot stand it. Sad to say this even it’s like becos of this language thing then we seems to drift apart. From my part first though feel like so far away hahaha well each individuals have their preference i guess. So i doubt all Aussie gals don’t date asian guys kua. Just that hard to find aje since really too different.
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Mar 22 2007 / 9:11 pm
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May 29 2007 / 8:22 am
White gurls’ pussies wayyy too big for us
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Jun 03 2007 / 3:00 pm
Loud uninhibited girls tend to scare off Asian men.. that’s why I’m dating my Aussie bf. Less controlling and self-conscious.
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Aug 15 2007 / 1:27 pm
asian guys can date whoever they want! why do you guys keep saying its sick…if the blonde girl consents to it as well, then let them be happy together. im sick of this whole asian dating drama. stop butting into other people’s business, plus alot more white girls are into asian guys nowadays.
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Aug 15 2007 / 1:30 pm
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May 15 2008 / 9:17 am
“more whitegirls are into Asian guys” - it means instead of seeing 1 every other month, it’s getting easier to see them every other day
But yeah it depends on where you are. Vancouver Canada is a melting pot, so is NY/NJ/CT/MA(boston) for inter-racial dating for asian men.
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Aug 12 2008 / 8:33 am
A valid point, but being obsessed with white women is not such a handicap in life!

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Aug 12 2008 / 1:47 pm
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Aug 14 2008 / 1:13 am
I am a white male who loves asian men. So beautiful inside and out. Asian culture is more refined and my asian boyfriends have been so sweet. Waiting for the right one in Florida!
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Aug 16 2008 / 5:06 pm
I’m a cambodian born french canadian who has lived in Los Angeles, Paris and now London UK. I’ve grown up among white kids even though our school was culturally diverse, they were my only friends. Now I just feel more comfortable with them since their values are closer to my own. That’s why I’m more attracted to white women. I’ve tried dating asian women…but I felt no physical attraction to them… Also no sex before marriage was an issue although that’s changing as well. I think you need to wait 1 or 2 generations to pass before you see a lot more inter cultural couples. By the way guys, it’s not a size thing, I’ve dated women who are taller than me…there’s no problem there don’t let it bother you (I’m 5′9) It’s all about what you project and the feelings you evoke in them when they’re with you. My philosphy…ask questions, listen and make her laugh (that works for any woman) but you still got to convey that you’re not sexually inept. Also true, it’s not the size that counts, but how you use it!

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Aug 20 2008 / 1:21 am
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. I am Chinese and She is is a blonde Caucasian. I love blondes for the purpose of their white porcelain doll skin and how it complements with the varying degrees of blonde hair. Of course looks only go so far. I think another factor that goes into this is upbringing to some Asian youths who are bored with their own kind, foreign girls are like a breath of fresh air, at least for me. And as for asian guys being short. I am 6-4 and she is like 5-8ish
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Sep 01 2008 / 9:53 am
Those asian guys are usually asian american. You will hardly ever see a people who were raised and born in their homeland prefer white girls. The setting on where they were raised affects their style. There maybe some asians who were born in their homeland prefer white girls, but most don’t. You should specify this topic since people will assume “asians” in general. If you don’t…I really don’t care.
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Sep 15 2008 / 4:29 pm
I am a cute, slender, feminine blonde/blue young woman who has a “thing” for Japanese men. I know for a fact that many white women would love to be with asian men. Why? Because we know asian men are hard working. They usually have full heads of beautiful black hair. They (usually) are extremely polite and educated.
What prevents some white women from going out with an asian man is the fear of cultural differences. I’ve heard that asian men would love to sleep with a white woman, but not marry them. Usually, white women desire romance with an asian man, and not just sex.
My point is, is that asian men are very much desired by white women. Asian men should just go for us, and white women should go for them! I for one would love to see more asian men/white woman pairings in movies. In the 90s we had the “Vanishing Son” series, and recently, released was the “Never Forever” film. Hopefully, the portrayal of asian men/white women pairings will increase in the media.
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Oct 11 2008 / 10:23 am
^ I agree with this assessment. Control the media so the perception will change.
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Nov 16 2008 / 12:53 pm
I think cultural difference has big factor. I grew up in Korea and moved to the US when I was freshmen in high school. I was lucky to date few white girls during high school year but it didn’t work out as I hoped.
I honestly felt a lot comfortable w/ Asian girls and married Japanese girl. Nowadays, I am wondering who I feel comfortalbe if I raised in the US. -
Nov 17 2008 / 2:54 pm
LOL.. that’s how I got this stupid site. I like to fuck white girls. I was born in the Midwest and white people treated me like shit. So I get a lot satisfaction from fuck blondes.
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