Comments on: Think you know how to read women? http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/ I see, I hear and I feel. And then I blog it. Thu, 09 Sep 2010 13:06:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: joey http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-94564 joey Fri, 02 May 2008 03:06:02 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-94564 yeah, i agree with that. so it shall be reserved for the right kind of recipients! thank you for the heads up :) yeah, i agree with that. so it shall be reserved for the right kind of recipients!

thank you for the heads up :)

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-94101 mooiness Wed, 30 Apr 2008 09:46:50 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-94101 joey: well, your first two behaviour are ok but the ear-pulling is kinda intimate. But it does depend on the guy - some reads too much into it, and some are oblivious. Until you figure the guy out, I think it's always best to play it safe. Who knows, you might be the one who had lost a good friend to talk nothing with if you walked away or had played it wrong. ;) joey: well, your first two behaviour are ok but the ear-pulling is kinda intimate. But it does depend on the guy – some reads too much into it, and some are oblivious. Until you figure the guy out, I think it’s always best to play it safe.

Who knows, you might be the one who had lost a good friend to talk nothing with if you walked away or had played it wrong. ;)

]]> By: joey http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-94030 joey Wed, 30 Apr 2008 03:20:51 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-94030 I confess that I'm the type that loves physical contact espcially when i feel comfortable talking to someone. By physical contact i mean a pat on the shoulder, a slap on the hand or even sometimes pulling the other ear of the other person (not to the extent of twisting it off). All these actions are just a form of expression that im enjoying the company and conversation. However it has been more than once that i've been lectured by male friends that these are misleading signals to the MEN out there. I've heeded that advises n tried to restrict myself...but it makes me feel so stifled that i no longer feel geniunely happy to have hearty laugh. It is as though, its wrong to laugh ur heart out... how sad can that be? So i've given up trying to live up to the society's standards and by myself. If the guy wants to take it the wrong way, i will always walk away. Since men are the ones who are crying out to us not to mislead, they lose someone who's good to have a great conversation with :) I confess that I’m the type that loves physical contact espcially when i feel comfortable talking to someone. By physical contact i mean a pat on the shoulder, a slap on the hand or even sometimes pulling the other ear of the other person (not to the extent of twisting it off). All these actions are just a form of expression that im enjoying the company and conversation.
However it has been more than once that i’ve been lectured by male friends that these are misleading signals to the MEN out there.
I’ve heeded that advises n tried to restrict myself…but it makes me feel so stifled that i no longer feel geniunely happy to have hearty laugh. It is as though, its wrong to laugh ur heart out… how sad can that be?

So i’ve given up trying to live up to the society’s standards and by myself. If the guy wants to take it the wrong way, i will always walk away. Since men are the ones who are crying out to us not to mislead, they lose someone who’s good to have a great conversation with :)

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92828 mooiness Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:22:51 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92828 Lupin: at times yes - my first instinct is to act blur after past disappointments. ;) Lupin: at times yes – my first instinct is to act blur after past disappointments. ;)

]]> By: LupinTan http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92789 LupinTan Fri, 25 Apr 2008 23:28:13 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92789 Blur thing - I mean cases that u know at the instant that you are not. I don't know if Mooi agree with me, guys in general are stupid when comes to discerning these things Blur thing – I mean cases that u know at the instant that you are not.

I don’t know if Mooi agree with me, guys in general are stupid when comes to discerning these things

]]> By: blur ting http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92514 blur ting Fri, 25 Apr 2008 08:38:31 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92514 Lupin - but women have ego too. They want to test water, just to see if they're attractive. Lupin – but women have ego too. They want to test water, just to see if they’re attractive.

]]> By: LupinTan http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92426 LupinTan Fri, 25 Apr 2008 05:18:17 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92426 To the ladies out there, if you are not interested, just say that you are not interested. Hahaha. To the ladies out there, if you are not interested, just say that you are not interested. Hahaha.

]]> By: mooiness http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92425 mooiness Fri, 25 Apr 2008 03:40:45 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92425 blur ting: it's true. Most times you can tell if a woman is into you. It's those who are naturally flirty that confuses things for us. Silverstar: you are right about being afraid of coming off as rude. Though sometimes I think you have to be cruel to be kind. Katie: ok your hand just being there for your then-not boyfriend to hold is a very vague signal! I can imagine what he was thinking: should I or shouldn't I? What if she really wanted to just rest her hand there??? Hahah. girlstar7: the dynamics is great, I agree. Ideally I think everyone should assume that flirting is just flirting and not think too much of it. After all, if a man or a woman really wants a person there are definitely a lot more direct ways than being coy about it. Yuuka: yes! If ppl can be more upfront there'd be less miscommunication, and less waste time and effort barking up the wrong tree. Lad Litter: hahah oh man that is so true! You'd be like kicking yourself, "Argh!" I can understand your wife's point though. There is such a thing as excessive flirting. blur ting: it’s true. Most times you can tell if a woman is into you. It’s those who are naturally flirty that confuses things for us.

Silverstar: you are right about being afraid of coming off as rude. Though sometimes I think you have to be cruel to be kind.

Katie: ok your hand just being there for your then-not boyfriend to hold is a very vague signal! I can imagine what he was thinking: should I or shouldn’t I? What if she really wanted to just rest her hand there??? Hahah.

girlstar7: the dynamics is great, I agree. Ideally I think everyone should assume that flirting is just flirting and not think too much of it. After all, if a man or a woman really wants a person there are definitely a lot more direct ways than being coy about it.

Yuuka: yes! If ppl can be more upfront there’d be less miscommunication, and less waste time and effort barking up the wrong tree.

Lad Litter: hahah oh man that is so true! You’d be like kicking yourself, “Argh!” I can understand your wife’s point though. There is such a thing as excessive flirting.

]]> By: Lad Litter http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92424 Lad Litter Fri, 25 Apr 2008 02:05:32 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92424 Amen, Brother! And then later after the moment has well and truly passed you hear that the signals you were desperately holding back from misinterpreting were genuine. My wife doesn't understnd playful flirting. She thinks that if you're not interested, you shouldn't act as if you are. Amen, Brother! And then later after the moment has well and truly passed you hear that the signals you were desperately holding back from misinterpreting were genuine.

My wife doesn’t understnd playful flirting. She thinks that if you’re not interested, you shouldn’t act as if you are.

]]> By: Yuuka http://mooiness.com/2008/04/23/think-you-know-how-to-read-women/comment-page-1/#comment-92265 Yuuka Thu, 24 Apr 2008 16:08:40 +0000 http://mooiness.com/?p=1441#comment-92265 My best friend (male) is always checking my body language. He constantly tells me to correct my misleading signals like leaning towards someone when they talk or touching them and smiling often. I also have a bad habit of saying to people that I like them when I do. I try to be more aloof when I`m with people who seem like they`d get the wrong idea but generally, that`s how I am. I mean if I wanted to be more than friends, I would either ask or say so (helps that I have a really high tolerance for rejection). I think everyone should! Makes life that much easier, wouldn`t you say? My best friend (male) is always checking my body language. He constantly tells me to correct my misleading signals like leaning towards someone when they talk or touching them and smiling often. I also have a bad habit of saying to people that I like them when I do.

I try to be more aloof when I`m with people who seem like they`d get the wrong idea but generally, that`s how I am. I mean if I wanted to be more than friends, I would either ask or say so (helps that I have a really high tolerance for rejection). I think everyone should! Makes life that much easier, wouldn`t you say?

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