I’ve mentioned about the girl whom I have been crushing on. Though I have been seeing her around, nothing new has happened with her yet. But now I’ve met another girl about a week ago. And she’s different to the first.
Girl A is from a similar cultural background as I am so we share a similar sense of humour and talking to her feels very easy and comfortable. There is a language barrier between Girl B and I. Athough, through the very little that we manage to communicate across, we still manage to have fun together.
My closest friends know about the situation with both. For now, because they know Girl A had said that “I’m not her type“, the majority of them are encouraging me to go for Girl B. Having seen us together, they seem to think that Girl B enjoys my company too. In fact, I didn’t even think about her that way until their prompting.
So right now, I’m thinking that I should not over-analyse things to death and should just go for it. I still harbour the thought of being with Girl A but it doesn’t mean I shouldn’t explore other possibilities that come my way. Even if this new possibility will take a bit more effort due to the language barrier, it could lead to something interesting which I wouldn’t have experienced otherwise.
And that’s all good, right? 
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Question, do you know how Girl A feel about you?
If she’s not into you, then you must as well move on rite?
Hahaha. All the best dude.
Of course! Love must be mutual and girl B enjoys your company and vice versa, you’re already halfway there. Communication – that can be fixed easily as you spend more time together. Plus your friends are egging you on. They must have seen some sparks and think its a good match too. I say go for it!
go for it bro! pls tell me its some hot jap chick!
you know where I stand!! woooooooot!! and I still think you’re a horrible picker upper
I think you just go for both!
Sometimes not speaking the same language is a good thing. A good friend of mine swears at her husband in japanese whilst he swears back in cantonese…what you don’t know can’t hurt you rite….:)
Of course this depends on big the language barrier is. If it comes down to sign language then maybe it’s not such a good idea….but you can still date first!!
Lupin: I don’t really know how she feels. I’m not hung up over her but I’m not abandoning the idea yet either.
blur ting: hahah yeah all thanks to them actually. I didn’t even entertained the idea myself initially.
nadnut: shhhh!
Kitty: yes, I agree. I is lousy picker-upper. I had you all to thank. Hahah!
sourrain: yes yes it’s all an open field. Not ruling out anything or anyone.
HURRAH ! Great news Mooi, get some.
( nadnut, that is EXACTLY the thought that sprang to my mind ! )
ooki no wa suki?. Thats the ticket mate !
Anyway, it isn’t marriage you are proposing is it, girl B probably just wants to have fun, have a ball, and lucky you, you have a spare, so give it to the lassie !
Hahah will do!
Have you heard of the book ALmost French? It’s about an Australian woman who goes to Europe expecting it to be a few months backpacking but falls in love with a Frenchman, moves to France and never comes home! She barely speaks any French and he barely speaks any English but somehow they manage to make it work. ANyway, the book is actually based on a true story and the couple are still together and happily married and living in Paris. Your post reminded me of the book so it CAN actually work!
Best of luck, whatever happens!!
Wow sounds like an amazing story. I won’t say mine in on par with that, but the language differences are similar though I think we manage to understand each other quite well.
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