I read this last week and I thought it too good not to share. Check it …

He is a Sneaky Nice Guy Lover, the kind who lets you cry on your shoulder, then cops a feel. He will listen to you whine about your mean ex-boyfriend and say you deserve someone better, someone who will respect you—someone like him.

Billy Corgan Is the Guy Who Lets You Cry on His Shoulder, Then Cops a Feel – Jessica Simpson – Gawker.

Read the rest of the article for some truly spot on analysis about how some guys operate. You all know how I feel about waiting for that girl who isn’t available – I don’t. Which is why I will never be a sneaky nice guy lover who will let you bitch and moan freely about the bad boy whom you would return to again and again, in the hope that eventually you will see through him and then come running back to me.

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Hah, the strategising would just take too much time and effort, and I don’t have the patience for it. And if I want to cop a feel, I’d just do it without the pretense of being caring and understanding.

Although, as sleazy and sneaky as SNGLs are, they exists because there are women who enjoy having such a guy around to patch them up emotionally from time to time. It’s a symbiotic relationship like that of a parasite and its host.

And as the article sums up quite nicely, the kind of girl who only likes you when she’s needy emotionally may not be the best kind of girl to be with. And SNGLs should stop being sneaky and just go for girls with less baggage – it’s probably much easier.