I’m 32 in December. All of my uni friends are married with kids. As in *all* of them. On the rare occasion that I go to their houses, this is a common instruction from my friends to their kids:
? Uncle Marcus ?!
There are a few of them whom I’m closer with and who knows my single partying life, so their’s would be:
? Marcus ???! Marcus ????? hor?
(?? ~ kor-kor)
And on the even more rare occasions that their parents happen to be in the house too:
Don’t be so picky lah! How old are you now? 32?! You see? I’m a grandparent already! I’m sure your parents would like to have some grandchildren riiiiight???
And that brings me to the title of this post … my standard reply is:
What picky?! I have no standards already! Hahahaha!
But that’s a lie. I do have standards but they apply to me finding a wife. However when it comes to sex and having fun, I’m pretty much free for all. Why? Because I haven’t had much of it for a looong time. I figured, if a girl is gonna offer me some I’m not gonna ask too many questions. Pity I didn’t come to this conclusion earlier.
Sex is sex, it’s not long term so I’m not going to apply a set of stringent rules to it. Whereas a wife is for a lifetime (we hope) so it’s more prudent to be more picky with that. Is that a very MCP of an attitude to take?
I don’t think so. Let’s be honest – girls want sex as much as men do. The above attitude is only MCP if we assume that girls are “used” by men. Ignoring porn, strip bars and all that – women objectify men as much we do them but more discreetly. Riiiiiight???
So anyways, I still haven’t been offered any booty yet. Feminists and Christians need not apply though. Cos I know what I just wrote does not go down well with you AT ALL. But if you wanna try, I will be happy to oblige. 😀
[tags]sex, marriage, single life[/tags]