I hate indecisive ppl who have no idea what they want, and yet complains and whinges about every option that you can think of to placate them. Imagine if you will, an outing that has been planned for at least a week. A question was posed about what to do and where to go.
No suggestion from the other party was forthcoming, so I suggested something which was accepted. On the day of the outing, a new suggestion was offered instead. But now it was too late: arrangements have been made, ppl called, and schedules set. The other party showed up anyway, albeit reluctantly. And then even tried to make their suggestions again.
Here’s why the situation is annoying. You were offered the chance to suggest something in the beginning and you didn’t take it. You had the opportunity to object to my suggestion and to suggest something else but you did no such thing. You then waited a whole week to come up with your bright idea at the last minute when you know fully well that it’d be difficult and inconvenient to more than just one person to change plans now. You then showed up acting like you were the one who was wronged.
I is furious. I is sibeh dulan with you. I hear you say “anything lor” one more time and then see you complain again, I’m gonna smack you in the face.
p.s. For reference, please see Gillian Tan’s little vid titled “Live with Bambi” and watch out for the “Anything Lor” girl (pictured).