Chasing or pursuing a woman is overrated. Most guys like to chase, and most girls like to be chased. Personally I don’t have the patience for it. Some say that you’d appreciate the woman more if you had to fight for her affections. To that I say, I already appreciate the woman – that is why I’m asking her out in the first place right?
I understand a certain amount of wooing is necessary, and I like a little bit of coyness and flirting. But as soon as I sense a bit of a mind game, or she starts to play hard to get, or she gets hot and cold, I’m outta there.
All this unnecessary chasing is just in the way of us enjoying the good stuff from being together. How does the length of the chase, or the effort put into it affect the quality of the relationship after anyway? I don’t see the connection. Do you? What matters more is what happens *after* you become a couple.
Ok, enough with the emo stuff. I’m gonna go fantasise for a while.
In my mind the woman is always ready and available. Heheh. Woohoo!
[tags]dating, single life[/tags]