Imagine this if you are a girl:
- Your boyfriend tells you that you can only go out alone with a set list of guys (there’s a list!).
- He tells you that you can only receive or make calls to the same list of guys.
- He also tells you that you *will* be where and when he wants you to be.
All this knowing that you have many guy friends whom you always go out with.
I just had drinks with a girl whose boyfriend is exactly like that. And wow, I’m on that list along with one other guy. Gees, I guess I should feel thankful? Seriously, what the f*ck!? And the only reason that I’m on his approved list is because I’ve known the girl way before they’ve even met.
She had been asking me why I haven’t been calling her. And I said to her, “Are you kidding me?! You know exactly why. And even though I’m on his list of *approved* callers, I’m still not calling you. Who knows what the jealous psycho might end up doing?!”
And I also told her, “You know what, don’t complain about him to me anymore. I can’t help you if you want to stay with him. If you feel that you are happy with him, then fine. Nothing that anyone else say will matter anyway.”
“You don’t see what the rest of us see.” I don’t know why girls put up with these men. And I really have no idea how insecure men like these snag a girl while I’m still single?! Not that I mind being single or am desperate but you know what I mean!
Seriously? Love is blind. And jealousy is a big ol’ green-eyed monster.