I just had dinner with 4 women. One is visiting from Sydney and whom I had a thing for 5 years ago, and another is Jaclyn who I don’t see very often but always have a lot to talk about to. The other two are their girlfriends whom I’ve met before. Except for Jaclyn, they are all married with kids ranging from 3 months old to 4 years old.
I’ve been in their company enough times now that I’ve been bestowed the title of “honorary sister”. Not in a gay way I insisted to them, not that there’s anything wrong with that. 😉
Because of that, the conversation topics which ranged from motherhood, marriage, relationships, men and other women flowed freely. The physics principle called the “observer effect” states that just by observing something, one would inherently change the nature of the object being observed.
But in this instance, I was really just a fly on the wall on a girl’s night out. I mean yeah they know that I was there and that I was a guy, but they didn’t care and they didn’t change the way they talk or what they talked about.
For that I’m glad because I enjoyed it. It’s highly educational and entertaining listening to a bunch of women yakking away. And boy do they love talking. Plus it never hurts to be in the company of good looking women, even if they aren’t available. Makes a refreshing change from the usual sausage fest.