Getting tired of a hot chick


December 6, 2007 12:28 AM

Jessica Alba and Cash WarrenThe other day my brother mentioned that he saw on one of those entertainment gossip shows that Jessica Alba’s boyfriend cheated on her. He posed a question: “How can anyone cheat on Jessica Alba?”

I answered, “The same reason why the porn industry goes through so many porn stars – men want variety all the time.” I think it’s ingrained in us.

And no matter how good the sex was initially, it will get stale eventually. It’s true, and that’s why you need more than just sex to sustain a relationship.

So I reckon the guy wasn’t being scummy because he wanted another woman or that he got tired of being with her, as unbelievable as it is for mere mortals like us. But I do think that he was scummy in the way he handled it by cheating. If I ever feel that I cannot be with a person anymore, or if I ever feel the urge to cheat, that’s when I know I should end the current relationship. It’s only fair for everyone concerned.

As for getting sick of a hot chick, it’s inevitable if that’s all there was to her. Sure it’d boost my ego for a while, and other women might think that I’m more rich or charming than I really am to be able to snag a hot chick. But you can’t be out being seen together all the time and you can’t have sex 24×7. Eventually you have to talk to her and deal with the other stuff that’s part of being with someone.

If she’s either emotionally unstable, insecure, manipulative, conniving, or dishonest, no amount of good looks and sex will make it worthwhile in the long run.

Well, that’s what I think anyway. I like to be given the chance with a hot chick to test this theory out. :mrgreen:

15 thoughts on “Getting tired of a hot chick

  1. Papa

    I’ve met too many “hot chicks” that only had their looks going for them, and nothing else. They’re great for a weekend, but never ever, ever ever ever as a steady diet.

    I wonder though, does Jessica Alba fall into that category where there’s not much more to her than her physical appearance, or she’s got a major character flaw to influence Senhor Cash on straying, or could it be the other end of the spectrum, where Jessica Alba has a great character and is mentally, and emotionally sound, but it’s Cash who just can’t control his primal urges? INQUIRING minds would like to know. ;D

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  2. mooiness Post author

    Hahah I have the exact same questions as you do. I think because of her clean image, we are more inclined to believe and assume that he was more the cheating bastard rather than the other scenario.

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  3. Lisa Y

    I do agree that guys are not always the scummy ones. Girls want variety too. Mental state & compatibility have a lot to do in making or breaking a relationship. I know a lot of friends who at some point of time in their life, were either cheated on or be cheated, got back together and ended up getting married. That or they are still in a long-term relationship. I don’t know how to account for that phenomenon…

    But hey, girls like variety too but when they do stray, they will be judged harsher and given labels.

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  4. mooiness Post author

    blur ting: heheh thanks! I better be careful what I wish for.

    Lisa: your friends who have strayed and got back together – maybe they realise what a good thing that they had in the first place. And luckily for them, they were both forgiving to each other’s infidelities.

    And yes, girls are given harsher labels than men.

    herman: that’s right – judging by just appearances and not knowing how they are really like, how can a man cheat on her?! πŸ˜€

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  5. Yapyap

    men can stray from hot women for many reasons … as the saying goes .. an object in possession lacks the charm it once had in pursuit.. :p i think good looks can only take a girl so her…sure she can attract a guy but whether she can sustain his interest is dependent on other factors .. Cash and Alba wise, maybe he cheated cos he’s threatened by her status? From the looks, financial and career perspective shes stronger than him on all fronts… dont men need to feel dominant and that theyre ‘The Man’ in the relationship? Perhaps he cheated to get that feeling elsewhere.. maybe its some underlying inferiority complex on his part!

    That said, love ur posts Mooiness! Always a good read.. Keep it up! πŸ™‚

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  6. mooiness Post author

    Moi: hmm, good theories. Very possible.

    Yapyap: I never thought to look at it that way. Yes that could be one possibility too. But that’s a real stupid way to do it though. I’m sure he knew what he was getting into when they started going out. πŸ˜‰

    And thanks for the compliment!

    Lupin: no she meant men would bounce from one hot woman to another because we get bored after we’ve gotten what we wanted? As for the hot chick research, go for it by all means and share the knowledge. Hahah!

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  7. BigZapfer

    I guess it just goes to show no matter how hot your are, or how much of “celeb” people consider you to be, people are all the same world over, same probs, all to human.

    I do like your like line “you can’t have sex 24Γ—7. Eventually you have to talk to her and deal with the other stuff that’s part of being with someone.” lol, eventually you have to talk to her :).

    Its still is hard to imagine actually doing though, cause Jessica Alba’s Still my 10/10 ;).

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  8. mooiness Post author

    BigZapher: she’s my 10/10 too. Hahah! Yeah if you strip away the celebrity and the mystique, they are the same as us. ‘Cept they got more money to soothe their pains away. Heh.

    lovie: yeah we wouldn’t know but in the end, cheating is still cheating. If I have to cheat, I rather not be in the relationship. So he is to blame to a certain extent as well.

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